RCT cause i miss u guys - Page 18

adiafaith · 05-20-2008, 05:48 PM

And he knows that this hurts you, yet he still thinks you're being stupid for bringing it up? WTF?

Ok, can't focus on him right now 'cause I don't want to talk badly about the father of your kids.
I do have a question though - two questions, actually. Is it just the 3 year olds doing this and what do you say or do when they say it in front of you?
I still don't think this is something you should try to stop by talking to your kids 'cause you end up looking bad. It should be something their father addresses.

sher1 · 05-20-2008, 05:59 PM

um my older kids told me they call her mum sometimes
& that they cuddle & kiss her all the time

Nanika · 05-21-2008, 09:10 AM

God, Sher! I don't know if I feel more sorry for you, or pissed at him!! Don't you have any support from your family? Or friends? Anyone??! I really don't think you should be alone in this. And I also think that you should sit down with your older kids and talk about how this all is effecting them, and why they feel the need to call her "mom"
And he has no excuse! What, after all the years you spent together he can't muster a shred of respect for you?! You should twist his balls! Or maybe you need to star playing hard ball, or at least stand up for yourself harder! Get mad! Don't cry over this - make a stand!

sher1 · 05-21-2008, 10:06 PM

ok i told him about it he said its not true they havent called her mum
but i dont believe him
i believe my kids
i know my older kids aint calling her mum but i know my twins would be there all over her they like her alot.
thanks nan for your advice

Nanika · 05-22-2008, 07:22 AM

I'm not getting the impression that you put your foot down! He said it's not true and that's it??

adiafaith · 05-22-2008, 10:35 AM

^^With you, Nan.

You need to be so much more forceful, sher. Why sit around being upset about this while he just shrugs it off? I'm not saying to argue or yell, but I wouldn't have left it alone at "it's not true."

sher1 · 05-22-2008, 02:54 PM

im so sick of fighting about the same stuff it never gets resolved

its the same fight different day

bobbinrob · 05-24-2008, 01:49 AM

Happy Birthday Sher!!!!!

sher1 · 05-24-2008, 03:37 PM

thanks robyn & where the hell u been anyways havent talked to u in ages

meimei42 · 05-25-2008, 07:03 PM

Evenin' dears.

05-20-2008, 05:48 PM	#171
adiafaith Jared's S&M gal Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Brooklyn!!!! Posts: 11,956	And he knows that this hurts you, yet he still thinks you're being stupid for bringing it up? WTF? Ok, can't focus on him right now 'cause I don't want to talk badly about the father of your kids. I do have a question though - two questions, actually. Is it just the 3 year olds doing this and what do you say or do when they say it in front of you? I still don't think this is something you should try to stop by talking to your kids 'cause you end up looking bad. It should be something their father addresses. __________________ *There's a new Pretty in town and them other boys don't know how to act* AND WHEN HE NEEDS A TOWEL, ADIA'S TONGUE IS AVAILABLE Thanks to MEI for my scrumptuous sig

05-20-2008, 05:59 PM	#172
sher1 Moderator Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 10,204	um my older kids told me they call her mum sometimes & that they cuddle & kiss her all the time __________________ sexy sign made famous by the one & only Mei/Dani & Kali from LJ :: 4 my icon

05-21-2008, 09:10 AM	#173
Nanika Shan's slave girl! Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 1,817	God, Sher! I don't know if I feel more sorry for you, or pissed at him!! Don't you have any support from your family? Or friends? Anyone??! I really don't think you should be alone in this. And I also think that you should sit down with your older kids and talk about how this all is effecting them, and why they feel the need to call her "mom" And he has no excuse! What, after all the years you spent together he can't muster a shred of respect for you?! You should twist his balls! Or maybe you need to star playing hard ball, or at least stand up for yourself harder! Get mad! Don't cry over this - make a stand! __________________ I shot the sheriff.... it's back!! AV by THE Drama_Diva on LJ

05-21-2008, 10:06 PM	#174
sher1 Moderator Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 10,204	ok i told him about it he said its not true they havent called her mum but i dont believe him i believe my kids i know my older kids aint calling her mum but i know my twins would be there all over her they like her alot. thanks nan for your advice __________________ sexy sign made famous by the one & only Mei/Dani & Kali from LJ :: 4 my icon

05-22-2008, 07:22 AM	#175
Nanika Shan's slave girl! Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 1,817	I'm not getting the impression that you put your foot down! He said it's not true and that's it?? __________________ I shot the sheriff.... it's back!! AV by THE Drama_Diva on LJ

05-22-2008, 10:35 AM	#176
adiafaith Jared's S&M gal Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Brooklyn!!!! Posts: 11,956	^^With you, Nan. You need to be so much more forceful, sher. Why sit around being upset about this while he just shrugs it off? I'm not saying to argue or yell, but I wouldn't have left it alone at "it's not true." __________________ *There's a new Pretty in town and them other boys don't know how to act* AND WHEN HE NEEDS A TOWEL, ADIA'S TONGUE IS AVAILABLE Thanks to MEI for my scrumptuous sig

05-22-2008, 02:54 PM	#177
sher1 Moderator Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 10,204	im so sick of fighting about the same stuff it never gets resolved its the same fight different day __________________ sexy sign made famous by the one & only Mei/Dani & Kali from LJ :: 4 my icon

05-24-2008, 01:49 AM	#178
bobbinrob Moderator Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 20,477	Happy Birthday Sher!!!!! __________________

05-24-2008, 03:37 PM	#179
sher1 Moderator Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 10,204	thanks robyn & where the hell u been anyways havent talked to u in ages __________________ sexy sign made famous by the one & only Mei/Dani & Kali from LJ :: 4 my icon

05-25-2008, 07:03 PM	#180
meimei42 Moderator Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 11,817	Evenin' dears. __________________ AV by ewlyn on Livejournal

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