Sarah and husband Josh Winterhalt

[saeed123]

Promilicious;1024936...

what you said impressed me, i really like people of this way of thinking

no comment on what you have said

[saeed123]

Originally Posted by Promilicious

I guess i'll add my two cents in...

I think the stuff that's being said about Sarah's husband is hurtful. I didn't find him attractive at first sight, but then I thought that maybe it's not his LOOKS she fell for. I've been teased countless times for falling for guys who aren't that great looking...but the same friends who tease me about that fall for guys who aren't great looking either! When we were younger, I guess you could say we had 'better' tastes when it came to picking out good looking guys. But I think it's because attractive people are attractive people (no that's not a typo :P). We all can pick out an attractive person from a crowd. They have certain universal facial/body features we like.

But I think the reason why our taste in men is...'deteriorating'...is because as we're growing older, we're becoming wiser. We tend to (involuntarily) fall for PERSONALITY rather than looks. LOL Just last night one of my friends started ranting about how 'stupid' and 'unfair' it is that she always looks at personality FIRST now....instead of looks.

So I think Sarah, who seems to be a very intelligent woman, fell for Josh's PERSONALITY rather than looks. But I bet that she also finds him attractive because....I've noticed that when I fall for a guy because of his personality, his personality makes him seem really good looking.

So I guess that's all that matters. As long as Sarah's happy with and attracted to her husband...everything else we think/say doesn't really matter.

BUT......it's still hurtful. Even though I highly doubt she'll come on here and read these posts...it's still wrong. If you wouldn't like someone saying these things to you...don't say it yourself. (And you can't get away from this by saying, "oh well I'm not gonna marry someone who's not good-looking!"....pretend that you do! then how would you feel if someone said these things about them?)

oh...and I hope they don't get divorced. I, for one, would love to see a couple survive in hollywood. And as someone said before: Dr. Sarah Tancredi and Michael Scofield are different from Sarah Callies & Wenthworth Miller. One's fantasy...one's reality. It'd be unwise to mix em up.

Sorry for the long post. I needed to procrastinate. =D

Lub Lub!

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you have really summarised everything and what a nice explanation to crazy people , no comment on what u have said

[chloe501]

If she married Miller~~~