Wentworth Miller

[helps]

EXACTLY! I so loved to get lost in a book or a movie, but living with my mother it's just not possible. Yes, I watch Desperate Housewives and Bree is very annoying!

yea...right...Bree is enough annoying...i´ve never liked her so you can imagine how comfortable is living with my mum..^^^

Oh, you are preaching to the converted as far as it's concerning me, I love Jensen. Not in the same way I love Went, but I'm still very very fond of Jensen. Did you watch Dark Angel? He's in it as well and the characer he plays there has some qualities of Dean.
But keep on working on candy and smiley, I think they both sadly don't know what they are missing out on. At least smiley's now watching SPN.

i have to agree with you...i love them both,but each of them different way....they both are great guys...so we have similar taste hun..^^^..yea i watched Dark Angel,but i dont know if i saw all eps...and agree woth you,i think Jensen is great in DA,too...there are some similarities with Dean...
i should because it´s pity that they dont know him...i have to say that except Went,he´s my most favourite actor...with his sense of humor etc...but i dont know smiley is on good way,but if i measure up to satisfy candy,i dont know...maybe she could watch interview and then she´ll see how he´s nice and then she could start to watch SPN and then we could talk about that than new PB eps will be on TV...and i could start to watch with smiley and candy first season again,because it´s long time when i´ve seen that and moreover im not sure if i saw all eps of season 1

[candyrose]

Girls, my nerves are tore up right now. I decided to go take care of the kids tonight and we had a big incident. When I got there, the younger brother's eyes were nearly swollen shut...it even looked like the white in his eyes were swollen a little bit. The mother said he should be fine and he had already been to the doctor, who told her not to worry unless he throat began to close up. I don't know what made his eyes and face swell like that, but it looked really bad...and they didn't seem to know what caused it. Anyway, she said he looked worlds better than earlier, which I can't imagine him looking worse. I swear, she wasn't gone long before he started acting funny. One minute he's a normal kid, hyper and playing video games; the next he is sprawled out on the couch and then wanting to go outside for some fresh air. I asked him what was wrong and he said he only had an upset stomach. He denied that his eyes hurt and he was having throat problems or trouble breathing. I didn't buy it entirely and knew he felt worse than he was letting on....but I didn't think it was too much cause for over worrying. I called his mother anyway, just to let her know he wasn't feeling better and she decided she was going to talk to her supervisor and see about coming home. At this point, he was still relatively fine...he was just complaining that he felt like vomiting...his breathing was normal and he was talking....then he starts getting upset because he wants his mother to come home and wants everyone to sit outside with him. He then becomes impatient, saying he should have gotten the shot earlier...the one the doctor didn't want to give him unless he really needed it or things got bad...and then he starts demanding I take him to his mother's work...and then to the hospital. He was getting really upset and losing control, throwing a tantrum and then this starts freaking the other kids out...who become worried something is really wrong with him...then they start telling him he doesn't look so well....then they say he was a fever when he didn't...and the next thing you know he says he can't breathe....and he is frantic...meanwhile we are trying to call the mother back because it seems to be taking too long and the younger brother wants to talk to her...he's freaking out...he's darting out the door, with nearly no clothes on, threatening to run down the road, then the highway, then to the hospital...then the rest of the kids start crying...start coming out..in the rain...with next to no clothes on...while I am running down the road trying to get the younger brother...by the time I got back, the mother had called and the older brother told her I was just going to call emergency services and she agreed she wanted this done...I have no idea what he told her...but he was freaking out and making it sound worse than it was...which was making things worse for all...the mother thinks her son his dying...then the younger brother sees everyone freaking out and gets worse...the next thing you know his breathing becomes funny..and I am having to calm him down while we are on the phone with emergency service. Anyway....firefighters show up, the ambulance shows up, the neighbors show up, and extended family shows up...the yard is filled with cars...it was a big commotion. And the whole time I am trying to stay on the phone with the mother, who is racing over here....thinking she is going to get there in time....and the phone keeps cutting off because the reception is bad out there...which is making things worse for her....and then I also have all the other people calling me....people I don't even know and have never given my number to..asking what is going on....while she is trying to call me back after the signal has been lost..and then she drives all the way out there, only to find out they are taking him to the hospital and he is gone....the grandparents eventually showed up and took the other kids with them to the hospital and I stood around, waiting for the mother who then decided she wasn't coming back but was going to the hospital. They said he should be OK....and his breathing was fine...but they are concerned about his eyes and don't know what caused it....so he's at the hospital right now...She's supposed to call me later and let me know what;s going on. I think some of it was simply an anxiety attack brought on by all the commotion and his siblings freaking out on him...he had all the symptoms and was fine until they started worrying him to death.....but it was still a good idea to get him to the hospital because despite the breathing problems which I don't attribute to his eyes...i think the other stuff was cause for concern. No one's eyes should look that bad unexpectedly and with unknown cause.....I felt so bad for those kids...yea, sometimes they are way out of control...but I really saw how much they care for one another tonight...heck, the sweetest thing happened when we were sitting in the back of the ambulance....he looked over at me and told me I had been doing a good job taking care of him and then he told me he loved me....and to top all this off...the younger sister said the same thing to me earlier that day....I felt so bad for them and saw them differently tonight....and I realized that despite how stressful and worn down I have been for the past few weeks....because believe me, some of the things they have done have been way too much and this is coming from someone who can be overly accepting and tolerant...but despite this....I realize how attached I am to them and how much I really care about their well-being...I just wish that when things weren't going so wrong for them...they could not try to make things worse for themselves and act the way they do...I really want to help them. I don't know...it just reminds me of so many things, like my own family for instance...and my mother...it was strange hearing those sirens again....but at least this time they are not taking someone away, a person who is never coming back.....

So are you nagging the person to clean up and don't have the patience to wait til they want to, or are you just cleaning it up yourself without even asking the other person to do it?

Oh, you are just dying to know this, aren't you. Now, this is the part I ask you if you are really a man, trying to put me to the test...*wink*
Actually, it's really hard to say...I am not just one or the other...maybe a little bit of both. I think you can only ask someone to pitch in so many times before you realize your efforts are futile....so I suppose I could say I am the one who just takes care of business...gets all the cleaning done. But I can't lie and deny that I haven't been compared to a man's mother on numerous occasions....I have heard that so much, I absolutely expect it when I am with any man...LOL. I think, with my experiences, I have learned for the most part that it is usually up to me to get things done. If there is something I want to be done, then I should rely on myself...I am the only person I can count on. I really don't think it should be this way...I think when two people live together, it should be somewhat of a collaborative effort..but...realistically, this isn't the case....if a man wants to do something else or simply doesn't feel like it, you can't make him take out the trash or vacuum the floor...it has to be when he is willing and ready....and that's so rare and sometimes it takes so long, it's better if you just keep your mouth closed and do it yourself---it will get done quicker this way. I am guessing by now you have figured out I am experienced in this matter...I have attempted the whole domestic-thing before...you know....living together and all that jazz. You may find this strange, but I actually enjoyed it to a degree...I found it empowering. I was essentially taking care of another human being...and if you would have seen him before and what all I had him do afterwards...I can see my influence there...sadly, it didn't work out...but this is more complicated...if you are interested, I will tell you...but for now I will wait and see what you think....BTW...what happened to that response you said you were working on...the one for Monday's post???

you know,i would like to she sometimes switch off and just sit and read some book or watch tv...but she...no way...she seems to me as workaholic...and moreover she compels me clean,too....you know she often reminds me Bree from desperate housewife..lol...have you ever watched that?...Bree is psychotic one...

It's hard for me to judge these situations and the mums because I don't know what the houses look like when they are in cleaning mode...and I don't know how much hell they give y'all about keeping things clean. All I can really say is that some people--and sometimes as you get older--you want things to be really clean. Some people, however, can be a bit fanatical about it. I think if you girls are not making a big mess and contributing in some way, then it's too much for them to give you so much hell...however....if you are leaving messes for them to clean up...well..then shame on you...*wink* I think when you spent a lot of time saving up for a house, and then you get one with your own family.....it's a part of taking care of your family....and you take pride in having a clean home...you see it as a reflection of the way you live and you want others to see it in a positive light. Plus, who wants to live with a house full of people when it's dirty and unsanitary?? While I think my grandmother, for example, makes too big of a deal out of cleaning and how important it is and how long it takes.....I can think of others who should do way more cleaning. My aunt, for instance, really needs to start cleaning...Ok, this is the same aunt I talked about a week or so ago....the one who showed up when i was house sitting and was horrible to me. Well, for most of her life, she lived with someone else...she either roomed up with her twin sister or lived with her parents....it was this way on and off until she was in her fifties. She had tried to live on her own once or twice, but it never lasted more than a few months. Plus, it ended up being more work for everyone else because she never stayed at her own place....she would spend all day at her parents or her sister's...who had her own life and own kid to take care of. Anyway, often we had to go to her place and clean it for her....she was crazy about animals and had dogs and at least 9 or 10 cats...so the house smelled like ****--literally....and there was this back room that pretty much had a floor made of dried cat ****....trying to get that **** up was next to impossible....and then there was clothes and boxes everywhere...you couldn't walk without tripping over something....and when you stepped over a box...you always slid around on wet animal ****...it was really bad...nothing but clutter, cat ****...empty food wrappers, cans, and boxes...it was worse than a dump...seriously...I haul my trash to the dump often and it smells much better than her house did...and it was certainly more organized. Anyway, I let her move in with me on one occasion....and it didn't go well at all. When she left....guess what she little surprise she had for me?? I swear to god, I go into her old room and find a plastic bag full of cans of cat food which had been half eaten....the **** was covered in maggots....and the next thing you know, my ex is pointing out that my carpet appears to be moving...yep...there were maggots stuck deep in my carpet....I swear to God, we both had to get on our hands and knees before we ended up calling somebody and pick the damn things up...one by one...with ****ing tweezers because nothing else would work....The rest of the place was clean...it was just the room I had given her that was a total mess.....and what bothers me even more...is how her stuff..still to this day...is scattered around at various people's houses because when she moves out, she never gets it all...then you tell her to pick it up or offer to bring it to her....and she never does anything about it. You feel bad about throwing some of the stuff away because it's not yours....but, then again, she shouldn't leave her crap everywhere....even years after being gone from certain houses....there is still stuff that belongs to her laying around....so I can attest that it is important to clean, especially when you have to consider the well-being of others and their comfort...but I don't think people should obsess about it...the important thing is that it is clean and germ-free...and that it's not so cluttered you lose things easily or they get broken or thrown away from all the carelessness shown...other than that....don't worry about it so much....you don't have to clean everyday of the week, all day long.....just clean as you go or set aside one day of the week where you give the house a good cleaning...it's not that bad....

[candyrose]

Attention: Weenieworth is in France and
wearing a nice suit with matching shoes--wahoo.
Please take note of the ensemble....horray
for him....finally took my advice.
But....in to conclude a crappy night..
..he decides to take the suit off way too soon..
..and smooch some other girlies..
.well, I must give him credit...
.I didn't think he would make it this long....
without cheating on me..oh..
.but I can't deny I am heartbroken.......*sobs*














Well, at least it wasn't some of the hoochies we have seen......with the tacky, skimpy clothes and fake tits hanging all over the place....

PS....he looks so nice and what a relief to see his fingers back to a normal size...
.now that would surely be a little more comfortable...
and pleasant-feeling then those swollen things
from the other day...no ouches

[helps]

oh honey...sorry about you...it seems you had really hard time...actually i´m really surprised,why doctor didn´t get him something...it could be some allergy and i can tell you that these things can get much worse in minute...for example my doctor gave me some pills and because i have problems with breathing so he gave me some inhaler in case hard run...and although i get almost stop breathing i´ve never had some problems with swollen eyes or something....so i´m just surprised that didnt get some pills or shot...is he allergic or something...because he should have some medics for these cases....i look up to you,because it sounds that it was enough cliffhanger...i´m glad that they finally appreciate you...i had to smile when i read that they both told you that they love you...you know they can be cruel sometimes and their behavior bad and sometimes it can seems that they havent respect or love to you,but that´s not true...they are probably unhappy about some things in their family,but somewhere inside they dont want be bad to you....they respect you and how they´ve already told you,love you...how i told you just be patient...children maybe seems more complicated,but i´m sure that they have much more reasons for what they do...contrary of the adults..

about my mum....you know,preferably she make me sad...she often tell me clean your room or something...i havent mess in my room...just some clothes over armchair...but i´m worry that she is workaholic and never stop tidy up flat...but there are many things...when she doesnt clean flat by chance,so she tells me many her worries...and it bothers me,because that are things that i can´t influence and can´t help her with that...i don´t think that it´s good idea drop on me all her problems...

thank you for pics...he looks great honey.....you did a good job with him...*wink*

and calena i wanted to ask you if you have some link for watch SPN online?...i would like to see some eps,again and now when i know what exactly happened them,i think i could watch them without titles..

[Calena]

Wow, candy, you must be exhausted emotionally as well as physically. Like helps I can't really understand that the doc didn't give him more medicine, to take when things got worse. How is the little guy doing now?

....BTW...what happened to that response you said you were working on...the one for Monday's post???

I gotta look for the sheets - I printed your post - and go over it again ..... sorry!

on the cleaning issue: I have a room in this house and before I moved in I told my mum I wanted it to be my room. I guess you could call it messy, I have clothes, books, papers laying around. But I leave no mess in any other part of the house and I'm of the opinion that my room should be left alone and it can look as bad as I'm comfortable with. I have food up here to, but I won't let it come to maggots that I can assure you. My mum sadly although she has agreed to letting me have my privacy still barges in whenever she feels like it - serveral times a day - and nags me about cleaning, losing weight and saving money. That are her 3 main issues. Sometimes she whines about me not talking enough to her. But everytime I try the conversation, no matter what the issue it began with was, ends up with us disaggreing about at least one of the 3 main issues, so I avoid talking to her as much as I can.

but there are many things...when she doesnt clean flat by chance,so she tells me many her worries...and it bothers me,because that are things that i can´t influence and can´t help her with that...i don´t think that it´s good idea drop on me all her problems...

Again: EXACTLY. Like yours, my mum did that since I was in my teens. That was the main reason I moved out when I was 23. I didn't imagine I would ever have to move back in with her. It's probably god's way of showing me the middle finger for not believing in him!

I don't fancy suits per se and the checkered shirt is not my flavour either. But him being in France he could really come to Vienna, imo!

LInks for SPN: some work and some don't, don't really know why:
http://www.surfthechannel.com/show/t...ernatural.html
(it takes way longer than 60 seconds for me to load)

http://www.watchsupernaturalonline.n...tural-season-1

http://www.watchsupernaturalonline.n...tural-season-2

http://www.watchsupernaturalonline.n...tural-season-3

[helps]

Again: EXACTLY. Like yours, my mum did that since I was in my teens. That was the main reason I moved out when I was 23. I didn't imagine I would ever have to move back in with her. It's probably god's way of showing me the middle finger for not believing in him!

honey....because i know how exactly you had/have to feel,im sorry about you and understand you..i dont know how long i´ll be here with my parents but it get worse and worse...i just want to she will be more optimistic and relaxing...nothing more...and give me time to take a breath...have to say that she has better moments,too...but lately it isnt easy get on with her ....lol...i think about god similar way..ooh...i feel like you´re my soul mate..^^^

thanks for links...i hope i´ll be understand them...

[Calena]

helps, graduate from school, study German, inscribe in University of Vienna, move to my little city (an hour away from Vienna) and we can move in together! I swear I won't ever nag you to clean!

I don't get why some clips work and some don't. Many have asian subtitles, too You have seen most of S1&2 already, haven't you? So watching them again without czech subtitles will help your English a great deal! Enjoy!

[helps]

Originally Posted by Calena

helps, graduate from school, study German, inscribe in University of Vienna, move to my little city (an hour away from Vienna) and we can move in together! I swear I won't ever nag you to clean!

I don't get why some clips work and some don't. Many have asian subtitles, too You have seen most of S1&2 already, haven't you? So watching them again without czech subtitles will help your English a great deal! Enjoy!

aaah...it sounds great honey...but i dont know if i want to study german...i´ve never learned that and it would be enough difficult to start from beginning,imo....but agree with you we can move in together..i would love that...and i can promise that neither me nag you to clean......and i wouldnt bothered you with my problems.......but only one thing couldnt we move for example at smiley or candy?!...lol...i would like to live in Britain or Usa rather......although because of you-my soul mate-im willing to sacrifice something.....

ok thanks...pity that there aren´t english subtitles...it would be more useful...yea i have....although i dont remember much from season 1,but season two i´ve already watched and now im going to watch 3rd ep of s3.....and have to say it get better and better with every eps....but im getting scared,too....im afraid look at the mirror,for example...

[Calena]

Did you see the ep in season 2 where Sam was possessed by a demon? I'm a total Dean-girl, but evil Sam was just HOT!

Oh, I would love to live in the UK for a while and I can see myself spending some years in the US, too. Just imagine, we could watch the newest eps of SPN, Lost and PB right when they are aired and wouldn't have to wait and search the net!
But I think with candy we are out of luck, she wants only tidy people or will drive us crazy with all her cleaning up after us. smiley does mention quite often that she's tidiying her home, we have to inquire further on how she stands on that matter.

[helps]

Originally Posted by Calena

Did you see the ep in season 2 where Sam was possessed by a demon? I'm a total Dean-girl, but evil Sam was just HOT!

Oh, I would love to live in the UK for a while and I can see myself spending some years in the US, too. Just imagine, we could watch the newest eps of SPN, Lost and PB right when they are aired and wouldn't have to wait and search the net!
But I think with candy we are out of luck, she wants only tidy people or will drive us crazy with all her cleaning up after us. smiley does mention quite often that she's tidiying her home, we have to inquire further on how she stands on that matter.

yea....i´ve seen this ep...and have to agree he was HOT!!...although Dean is hot in every moment of every episode.....and there were eps when i was really sorry about him...

yea...it would be lovely to live there...unfortunately i dont think that it´ll happen...you know,thanks god for net,because without internet i would be lost...have no chance watch my favourite shows and couldnt talk with you all....
hehe..you´re right...i dont think so that candy would be happy to live with us...that´ s bad,but i can´t help myself..i just have more important things to do......and smiley...yea we should ask her about that...i can imagine how she would be happy to live with us...bud don´t worry hun....at leasat we can live together without them...all days talking,walking with your doggie and watchs SPN with hot Dean and PB with hot Mikey...