The Bachelor's Andy and Tessa - Will It Last? - Page 3

Guest · 05-29-2007, 10:43 PM

I would say congratulations Andy and Tessa. I like Bevin, but one lady needed to leave and the other stays. This is a reality, game show and competition is strong. I was amazed on the tough questions Andy's family posed on both girls. They seem educated and professional. Of course, it is what touch the heart that counts. Bevin or Stephanie, Kansas should be on the run for the next Bacholorette. Cheers!

Guest · 05-30-2007, 11:57 AM

The show was very entertaining and I'm glad that Andy and Tessa are taking more time to get to know one another. I've been a navy wife for over 25 years and understand the pros and cons of the life style. It is not just living in Hawaii. It is living in many places - some closer to extended family than others. . . It is about enjoying the now and realizing that family is closer than you might think. Other navy wives are a wonderful support group as are friends you can make at church, work, and the neighborhood (military housing is the best for this!) Hope things work out well for both Andy and Tessa

Guest · 05-30-2007, 02:53 PM

Andy picked the real woman and I hope they will work it out and live a wonderful life. Bevin was more of a play girl and very much volatile. Good luck to you both.

Guest · 05-30-2007, 07:02 PM

They won't last-it will be over in less than a year

Guest · 05-30-2007, 11:24 PM

Mimi, you are pathetic. She's not living with him. Her face is not fat. And who are you to make such brazen statements?

Lauren · 05-31-2007, 11:23 PM

Maritza, you bring up an interesting point. Is it assumed that if the women accepts the invitation for the overnight date that she and Andy were intimate? I certainly wouldn't want to have sex with a guy who screwed (sorry) two other women! Andy's family is conservative and they seem to have decent morals. I just wonder, did Andy do the deed with all three finalists?

Guest · 06-01-2007, 08:46 AM

I don't think they're going to make it. Something's not right there but I can't pinpoint it. Ultimately it's too strange a way to meet your spouse. Low probablility of having a lasting relationship when you meet on a national television show in such an insulated environment. Highly entertaining though - I'm embarrassed to say.

Guest · 06-01-2007, 01:58 PM

I wish Andy and Tessa all the best. From all I've read and seen, they seem ideally suited to each other (adventurous, athletic, humanitarians, sense of humor, etc.) I find it sad that people need to find unkind things to say about them. That kind of behavior says more about the speaker than about Andy and Tessa. I think it's important to remember that everyone spent several weeks together and lots of opportunity to get acquainted. We are shown only a small bit of what went on. And what we ARE shown is slanted and distorted to suit the whim of the producer. I've read comments from previous contestants where they said that statements are taken out of context, and time frames are skewed. Viewer should keep this in mind before getting too judgemental. I dont believe that Andy slept with any of the three woman on the fantasy dates. He seems to have a high moral code, and he would not want to hurt Tessa, who he says he started to fall in love with on the "diamond" date.

Guest · 06-01-2007, 02:05 PM

This type of show does not interest me for the most part. It is not how people should look for their "other half." However, I don't think people should criticize the emotions of either Tesse or Andy, may they defy all of the naysayers.
As for Bevin, as an active member of the Baha'i Faith, I was apalled to watch her actions of promiscuousness, cussing, and drinking. My suggestion to her is to go and learn the truly beautiful way that a Baha'i should go a-courtin'. Learning about each others character, and how to interact with other people. Winning the approval of all living parents, and the simplest of all wedding ceremonies, stating that each is abiding "by the Will of God."
I know that inside, however, that Bevin is a tender-hearted person, and wish her only the best things life has to offer in the future. It's tough being on display for twenty million people every week!

linda · 06-04-2007, 04:15 AM

Who are you to criticize her, and to you who said it will not work, shame on you for saying that.And you too, you can meet your spouse any where.PLEASE STOP CRITCIZING PEOPLE. Tasse&Andy dont listen to wide mouths. Tessa i see in you a wife material please dont throw that away,andy please take good care of her.May God see you both through.PLEASE I WILL LIKE TO SEE YOUR WEEDING CEREMONY.

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05-29-2007, 10:43 PM	#21
Guest Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 0	I would say congratulations Andy and Tessa. I like Bevin, but one lady needed to leave and the other stays. This is a reality, game show and competition is strong. I was amazed on the tough questions Andy's family posed on both girls. They seem educated and professional. Of course, it is what touch the heart that counts. Bevin or Stephanie, Kansas should be on the run for the next Bacholorette. Cheers!

05-30-2007, 11:57 AM	#22
Guest Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 0	The show was very entertaining and I'm glad that Andy and Tessa are taking more time to get to know one another. I've been a navy wife for over 25 years and understand the pros and cons of the life style. It is not just living in Hawaii. It is living in many places - some closer to extended family than others. . . It is about enjoying the now and realizing that family is closer than you might think. Other navy wives are a wonderful support group as are friends you can make at church, work, and the neighborhood (military housing is the best for this!) Hope things work out well for both Andy and Tessa

05-30-2007, 02:53 PM	#23
Guest Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 0	Andy picked the real woman and I hope they will work it out and live a wonderful life. Bevin was more of a play girl and very much volatile. Good luck to you both.

05-30-2007, 07:02 PM	#24
Guest Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 0	They won't last-it will be over in less than a year

05-30-2007, 11:24 PM	#25
Guest Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 0	Mimi, you are pathetic. She's not living with him. Her face is not fat. And who are you to make such brazen statements?

05-31-2007, 11:23 PM	#26
Lauren Senior Member Join Date: Dec 1969 Posts: 132	Maritza, you bring up an interesting point. Is it assumed that if the women accepts the invitation for the overnight date that she and Andy were intimate? I certainly wouldn't want to have sex with a guy who screwed (sorry) two other women! Andy's family is conservative and they seem to have decent morals. I just wonder, did Andy do the deed with all three finalists?

06-01-2007, 08:46 AM	#27
Guest Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 0	I don't think they're going to make it. Something's not right there but I can't pinpoint it. Ultimately it's too strange a way to meet your spouse. Low probablility of having a lasting relationship when you meet on a national television show in such an insulated environment. Highly entertaining though - I'm embarrassed to say.

06-01-2007, 01:58 PM	#28
Guest Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 0	I wish Andy and Tessa all the best. From all I've read and seen, they seem ideally suited to each other (adventurous, athletic, humanitarians, sense of humor, etc.) I find it sad that people need to find unkind things to say about them. That kind of behavior says more about the speaker than about Andy and Tessa. I think it's important to remember that everyone spent several weeks together and lots of opportunity to get acquainted. We are shown only a small bit of what went on. And what we ARE shown is slanted and distorted to suit the whim of the producer. I've read comments from previous contestants where they said that statements are taken out of context, and time frames are skewed. Viewer should keep this in mind before getting too judgemental. I dont believe that Andy slept with any of the three woman on the fantasy dates. He seems to have a high moral code, and he would not want to hurt Tessa, who he says he started to fall in love with on the "diamond" date.

06-01-2007, 02:05 PM	#29
Guest Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 0	This type of show does not interest me for the most part. It is not how people should look for their "other half." However, I don't think people should criticize the emotions of either Tesse or Andy, may they defy all of the naysayers. As for Bevin, as an active member of the Baha'i Faith, I was apalled to watch her actions of promiscuousness, cussing, and drinking. My suggestion to her is to go and learn the truly beautiful way that a Baha'i should go a-courtin'. Learning about each others character, and how to interact with other people. Winning the approval of all living parents, and the simplest of all wedding ceremonies, stating that each is abiding "by the Will of God." I know that inside, however, that Bevin is a tender-hearted person, and wish her only the best things life has to offer in the future. It's tough being on display for twenty million people every week!

06-04-2007, 04:15 AM	#30
linda Senior Member Join Date: Dec 1969 Posts: 140	Who are you to criticize her, and to you who said it will not work, shame on you for saying that.And you too, you can meet your spouse any where.PLEASE STOP CRITCIZING PEOPLE. Tasse&Andy dont listen to wide mouths. Tessa i see in you a wife material please dont throw that away,andy please take good care of her.May God see you both through.PLEASE I WILL LIKE TO SEE YOUR WEEDING CEREMONY.